{"product_id":"the-yes-that-costs-you","title":"The Yes That Costs You","description":"\u003cp style=\"font-size:10px;font-weight:600;letter-spacing:0.18em;text-transform:uppercase;color:#6B9E9E;margin:0 0 0.6em;\"\u003eTHE IN-BETWEEN\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cdiv style=\"border-bottom:2px solid #6B9E9E;padding-bottom:1em;margin-bottom:1.5em;\"\u003e\u003ch1 style=\"font-size:22px;font-weight:700;color:#2B3744;line-height:1.25;letter-spacing:-0.02em;margin:0;\"\u003eThe \u003cspan style=\"color:#6B9E9E;\"\u003eYes\u003c\/span\u003e That Costs You\u003c\/h1\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cp style=\"font-size:15px;color:#2B3744;line-height:1.78;margin:0 0 1.2em;\"\u003eYou said yes before you finished thinking. By the time you heard yourself say it, you were already tired — not from the thing you agreed to, but from the weight of everything that made it impossible to say no. This isn't a willpower problem. It's a nervous system pattern that started long before you had the words for it.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cdiv style=\"background-color:#2B3744;padding:1.2em 1.4em;margin:1.5em 0;\"\u003e\n\u003cp style=\"font-size:9px;font-weight:600;letter-spacing:0.22em;text-transform:uppercase;color:#6B9E9E;margin:0 0 0.5em;\"\u003eKEY RESEARCH FINDING\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp style=\"font-size:38px;font-weight:700;color:#F1EDE4;line-height:1;letter-spacing:-0.02em;margin:0 0 0.5em;\"\u003e50\u003cspan style=\"color:#6B9E9E;font-size:24px;\"\u003e%+\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003chr style=\"border:none;border-top:1px solid rgba(107,158,158,0.3);margin:0.7em 0;\"\u003e\n\u003cp style=\"font-size:12px;color:#C4B49A;line-height:1.6;margin:0;\"\u003eOf adults with ADHD rate rejection sensitivity as one of the most impairing features of their condition — more debilitating, in many cases, than difficulty concentrating. (Dodson, W., ADDitude Clinical Series, 2016)\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cdiv style=\"border-left:3px solid #6B9E9E;background:rgba(107,158,158,0.06);padding:0.9em 1em;margin:1.4em 0;\"\u003e\n\u003cp style=\"font-size:10px;font-weight:700;letter-spacing:0.14em;text-transform:uppercase;color:#6B9E9E;margin:0 0 0.5em;\"\u003eWHAT'S INSIDE\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp style=\"font-size:14px;color:#2B3744;line-height:1.75;margin:0;\"\u003eYou'll understand why the yes comes before the thought — and why stopping it isn't as simple as choosing differently. You'll see the fawn response named clearly for what it is, not as a character flaw but as a learned survival strategy. You'll recognize the specific moments the pattern runs, and you'll leave with a clearer picture of what it looks like to begin building the kind of no that comes from inside rather than from fear.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cp style=\"font-size:15px;color:#2B3744;line-height:1.78;margin:1.2em 0;\"\u003eThis guide is for the people who are exhausted by how easy they are to say yes to.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003chr style=\"border:none;border-top:2px solid #6B9E9E;margin:1.5em 0 1em;\"\u003e\u003ctable style=\"width:100%;border-collapse:collapse;\"\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd style=\"vertical-align:bottom;\"\u003e\n\u003cp style=\"font-size:13px;font-weight:700;letter-spacing:0.14em;margin:0;\"\u003e\u003cspan style=\"color:#2B3744;\"\u003eSet\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan style=\"color:#6B9E9E;\"\u003eDesk\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp style=\"font-size:10px;font-style:italic;color:#C4B49A;margin:3px 0 0;\"\u003eBuilt for brains that work differently.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/td\u003e\n\u003ctd style=\"text-align:right;vertical-align:bottom;\"\u003e\u003cdiv style=\"background:#1e2b36;width:26px;height:26px;display:inline-block;text-align:center;line-height:26px;font-size:9px;font-weight:700;\"\u003e\n\u003cspan style=\"color:#F1EDE4;\"\u003eS\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan style=\"color:#6B9E9E;\"\u003eD\u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\n\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003chr style=\"border:none;border-top:1px solid rgba(43,55,68,0.15);margin:1em 0;\"\u003e\u003cp style=\"font-size:11px;color:#888;line-height:1.6;margin:0;\"\u003e\u003cem\u003eThis is a digital download. All sales are final — no refunds are offered on digital products. This guide is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose, treat, or replace the advice of a qualified mental health or medical professional.\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"SetDesk","offers":[{"title":"Default","offer_id":42876631089223,"sku":null,"price":7.0,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0684\/4812\/4999\/files\/TheYesThatCostsYou_Cover.png?v=1781406053","url":"https:\/\/getsetdesk.com\/products\/the-yes-that-costs-you","provider":"SetDesk","version":"1.0","type":"link"}